High Tea with Cake and Cater

Design Your Own

High tea is the perfect irony. It’s marketed as lady-like refinement, genteel tea sipping from Royal Dalton in white gloves, and as much food as you can eat. A dressed up gorge-fest seemed like the perfect birthday celebration for This Girl.


I went looking for a high tea venue and found some recent poor reviews. What to do?I came across a Facebook post. Cake and Cater is Selena and Ceri, two women who are passionate about making great food. A couple of photos on the post won me over and I was messaging them at 6 o’clock in the morning.

Cake and Cater has been in the business around two years and they already have a huge repertoire of catering and cake selections. They encouraged me to pick a selection I liked and provided a quote.


In my designer high tea, I decided there wouldn’t be asparagus and cream cheese or cucumber sandwiches. Instead I went for pork mini-burgers with mango chutney, curried chicken vol au vents, pumpkin and feta mini quiche, and lamb sausage rolls.

For sweets I chose the obligatory scones, jam and cream, and also went with little lemon tarts, meringue with fresh seasonal fruits and my birthday pick – chocolate peanut butter cupcakes.

Four sweet and four savoury options cost around $26 per person. This compares with high tea elsewhere for anything from around $30 – $45. Everyone paid $30 which contributed to tea, coffee and a glass or two of champagne.


I borrowed fancy crockery and cutlery from a friend. Another friend made paper decorations for the occasion. I bought some fresh flowers and of course I spent a few hours cleaning the house before guests arrived.

Cake and Cater were responsive and accommodating in all my dealings with them as I had to go back to them a few times as numbers changed. They don’t normally cater tea and coffee but were willing to do this for me if I wanted. In the end I elected to do this myself. I even got a comforting text the morning of the party to let me know everything was going according to plan. I was happy with the price and the food was of good quality. The overall view of the group was that the food was delicious. The burgers were a decent size with counterbalanced tastes – the savoury pork, the sweet apricot, the tart cucumber. The quiche and vol au vents were canape-sized so I was pleased the burgers were a bit larger so the savoury course was of sufficient size.


The highlight of the sweets course was definitely the cupcake. They have a large range of choices but the peanut butter and chocolate was a good combo and they looked lovely. The party’s consensus was that the meringue, like the pastry vol au vent and lemon tart cases, seemed to be pre-made. They were still enjoyable but it took a little of the lustre off.

Here’s the wrap on design your own high tea.


Minus side:

  • House cleaning
  • Serving guests (until I forgot because I’d drunk too much champagne and they had to help themselves).
  • Thinking of the little things you’d change to lift some selections from good to great like a little orange flower blossom and orange zest on the meringues’ strawberries.
  • A little more organisation for a party-presentation.

Plus side:

  • Choosing all the food you want to eat.
  • Professional people who turn up just early enough with lovely food and a friendly disposition.
  • Good value for money – not everyone could eat each of their selections. In particular, the sweet serves were large.
  • Home is a more relaxed setting where you can dwell and take a walk down the backyard to look at the guinea pigs and quail.


I would definitely use Cake and Cater again.

The Two Girls have had a couple of good high tea experiences – Jam and Bread (2014)

and Riversdale Estate (2016).

Find out more about Cake and Cater on their website – Cake and Cater.

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